Whatever children see in their families they try to learn the same , in the same way children treat others in the same way as they are always treated. Actually children learn from their surrounding ,a child often beaten in home or school will definitely think that there is nothing bad in beating or being beaten. When he grows up then whenever he will not be satisfied by anyone's work or will be displeased by anyone he will show his reaction by beating the one because of whom he is displeased or upset. If the same child had been explained everything with love and patience he would have shown his reaction in the adverse condition in the same way means he would have treated others with love and patience. I was never beaten or insulted in my childhood ,in place of it I was always admired by members of family, relatives and neighbours. Because of it I never insult anyone nor do I show anyone inferior. I have never beaten my child and she is always proud of this thing that like other mothers her mother does not believe in beating children. She also thinks that only illiterate mothers beat their children. If we really want to do progress then we will always have to keep one thing in mind that voilence is the cause of downfall of any person.